The One Question to Help You Feel Confident
Mindset, self-love,life purpose, life coaching, healing
Are you the person YOU would want to spend the rest of your life with?
That concept of being the one you love is not revolutionary.
The book "Calling in the One" is an excellent example of how we are finally being led to Unlearn the conditioning and the faerie tales that glamorize the "Princess/Victim"- driven mental cage for women to take for their default home.
The lie that you are NOT whole UNLESS someone comes in and saves you, is so "normal," that although thought leaders keep empowering us to Lean In, Step Up, Be Vulnerable, Take up space, etc...
You watch and think:
Sure, but HOW? That free, worthy woman could never be you, right?
You need to go to Nepal, or become gravely depressed, lose a loved one, and only then, will you find your truth through intense struggle. Right?
And something must be wrong with you.
Why do you feel this way?
Because what's familiar FEELS True.
We prefer to stay on the old, comfy couch of silencing our voice, and suffering that no one sees us, because it feels COMFORTABLE, and SAFE to stay there.
Look at your day.
Are you running on a treadmill of goals that are NOT yours?
It's not your fault.
Are you saying YES to things you know you don't want?
Time to ask what you are ignoring, saying YES to.
No.
What will help you find the right man, the fulfilling job, the excellent salary, a solid business plan, anything, something that will make you feel worthy?
What is that one thing that will make you feel that you are ALWAYS enough?
Well.
It's here.
It's YOU.
You do not need to go to India. Or to sit in silence for 7 days.
Or to journal for 2 hours a day.
How do you change your mindset and, thus, the course of your life, right now?
Accept 100% responsibility that you have all of the answers.
Your soul-utions (cute, right?) are HERE.
How do you find them?
By creating space and silence to live into the questions that you have been IGNORING.
Asking for a sounding board, a co-thinking partner who will challenge you to speak and ACT from a place of love and NOT fear.
Choosing a support network that will hold you accountable.
Identify what and whom you are allowing into your mind, your life, and your house.
This is your house.
It is sacred.
Choose your furniture and your guests wisely.
Enter into the sacredness of your home.
Own that it is YOUR 100% responsibility to create this home for yourself and those you love.
Choose being LOVE, OVER being liked.
To LOVE you, just as you are, the work you need to do is simple.
Going from NEVER good enough, to being FREE to live as you are, starts with YOUR willingness to sit with the question:
Am I the person I want to spend the rest of my life with?
Start there.
What would you have to change in your mind, your belief system, your daily plan, your life strategy, to start living as the ONE you love, admire, and respect, right now?
This work of self-reinvention is not COMPLICATED.
It's simpler than most things you have done in your life.
No gear, and no degree, required.
It is simple.
But it is not EASY.
Are you ready to be free?
Commit to reinventing your life FROM the perspective of the person you love.
Tell me:
Do you want to spend the rest of your life with YOURSELF, just as you are, right now?
P.S. Are you self-sabotaging?
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