The #1 Mindset Hack to Feel Confident as a Female Entrepreneur in 2020!
I have a question for you:
Have you ever heard that little voice in your head say to you, “I just don't know HOW you are going to accomplish this goal? Like…how? Should you just give up?”
Yup, me too.
So what do you do? Do you give in…and give up? Netflix awaits.
It’s your choice. You get to decide when the game stops, and you get to choose to “lose”.
However, this ain’t over till it’s over.
I intend to play the long game. So do my clients and students.
You?
The bigger the game, the bigger the doubt. The bigger the stakes. And the bigger the win of being committed to YOUR goal, and going all in.
Self-sabotage comes in that critical moment when you choose to QUIT on yourself because you feel like you are not enough. And you will find reasons to believe that, trust me.
So, how do you silence your self-doubt (you will never eliminate it, but you CAN choose to ignore it) to stop sabotaging your success?
1 - GET clear on your WHY.
2 - Commit to learning and developing YOUR craft and network.
3- Just do it. Do the work. All of it. Al of the “unsexy bits”.
4- Ask for help.
5- Repeat the entire process.
6- Take ownership of your success and celebrate yourself and others (this is so key)!
This weekend I was blessed to deliver a Confidence Workshop to a bunch of college students who blew my mind.
We changed. We shifted our mindsets. We shared our fears.
We supported each other’s dreams. We all learned.
(***I learned more from them than I think I taught!)
One student asked me:
How do I stop feeling like an imposter?
My answer?
I ALWAYS feel like an imposter. Now, even more than before.
I'm ok with it.
Are you?
What if, you could say that you are a "confident in the value I consistently deliver to those that need it"- imposter and just keep doing what you are called to do?
You can CHOOSE to see yourself as:
An imposter on a big mission to care MORE about what you can and will create for others, than the “belief” that you are not good enough to do it with success.
Yesterday, I got to see the love and the drive, in some brave young people’s hearts, and to remind them of their infinite potential to create their reality, and with that the reality of OUR WORLD.
I also got to experience the kindness and talent of my amazing collaborator, Zoonie Nguyen, who invited me to jump in on this venture, (totally last minute). By the way, Zoonie is about to release “How She Dares” a film that is set to empower women entrepreneurs all around the world to follow their damn heart. Watch the trailer here.
Guess what, none of that would have happened, had I said:
I am not “good”, “ready”, "worthy," "famous," “accepted”, “rich” ENOUGH to commit to my work as a coach full-time last year.
And I will keep doing it despite being afraid all of the time.
Had I said NO to my dream, we would have never gotten this experience today.
This is the thing,
Your commitment to your success is not about YOU.
It's about making sure that YOUR dream is not in vain, and it is about the VALUE it delivers (often not in the way you think, or plan) to others.
What are you putting off, scared to commit to, worried about failing at?
#ConfidenceTip:
Want to see if your dream is worth your time, money, and energy, beyond what you are comfortable with?
Show up and start doing it. Say yes to any opportunity to do more of it.
Share your work, "shamelessly."
Stop feeding your fear and become annoying about fuelling your vision instead!
GIVE more than you want to GET.
Final tip: Go forward without knowing the HOW.
There are people, resources, networks, communities just waiting to support you if you let them.
However, like today's class of students, you have TO SHOW UP and ASK.
You also have to be willing to receive it.
You have to accept that you are worth it.
The path to feeling confident in WHAT you are and your value is simple.
But it's not easy. You have to do the work.
As always, I am here to support you in it.
What will you commit to creating for YOU in whatever is left in 2020? How can you BE and add to the change this world so desperately needs?
Tell me!
P.S. Are you self-sabotaging?
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xoxo, Sasha