What old rules can be melted in the fire of your heart?

Life purpose, healing, abundance, mindset, self-love, spiritual awakening

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“Notice the burden of your ideas  about yourself to feel the freedom of discovering what you truly are.”

Dear friend,

How often do you feel called to BE with yourself?

Do you make it a priority?

There is nothing more powerful than hearing YOUR silence evoke a deeper truth about what you are and what you truly LOVE.

I have spent the past month on a self-led retreat in Vancouver, B.C.

Letting many of my old selves (and the rules that go with those "roles") die and create space for what is asking to be born.
It has not been comfortable for my performance and effective "self."
And it has been healing on a level that I am finally ready to receive.

I am just being.

I have been quiet on social media. I have deleted most social apps from my phone.

I have been contemplating what it means to be who I am right now and how I want to show up for myself.

For my loved ones.

For my incredible clients.

For you.

I want to share some of the answers - "heart-knowings" that emerged for me, as I know they might find resonance in your heart, whatever the question or challenge you are experiencing in your life right now.
The answer, the truth lies beyond rules. 

So imagine you are empty of ideas.
Open your heart and mind.

I invite you to witness, contemplate and receive whatever guidance you need right now:

• Spend quality time with, and learn to Love what you are, your essence beyond your “roles.”

• If you do not know who that is, that is great: You now get to fall in love with your authentic, radiant, and perfect partner. Your Real Self.

• Please get to know her like she’s the most important person in your life.

• Discover more about why she is so awesome every day.

• Give more of what feels like a sacred part of HER.

• Trust your heart’s truth.

• Dissolve the rules that make you agitated, overwhelmed, anxious, unworthy (a.k.a. a SCARED of life.)

• There is ALWAYS another way.
  Ask for it, and Witness it appear.

• Be with the discomfort of your rebirth. It's a miracle.

• Be with the discomfort of your rebirth. It's a miracle.

• Focus on spending more time with what is ALWAYS here, inside of you.

• Embody YOUR truth at this moment: the Divine is watching you now and always.

• God/The Universe/The Divine/ Your Greater -Highest Self: IT knows.

• Enjoy and trust the process of remembering yourself.

• Let's die more of what is not true.

• Know that it will hurt your idea of yourself.

• Devote yourself to being an example of integrity.

• Listen to the divine even more.

• Practice being with the silence even more.

• Break down the rules that keep you from being with your truth.

• Let go of anything that has burnt you out.

• There is always another way to be with the truth.

• Find the way that makes you feel alive, loving, and devoted to that way of life.

• Practice living it inside of your everyday BEING.

• Notice and thank Grace for the miracles you see around you now.

• Know that what is indeed yours- is part of you and cannot be lost.

• Let the rest come and go.

• Celebrate the space you create to sacrifice what is no longer alive in your heart.

• Your human plan will never compare to what becomes possible when you surrender your mind to the Divine inside of yourself: ask your intuition for any guidance on how to walk forward.

• Know that your nature is to love what you are.

• How can you learn to Love what you are today?
  
  Trust whatever comes out of that.

  I hope this serves you, my beautiful
  friend.

• Listen to yourself. You are the home your soul chose to express its gifts.
  
  ****How are you taking care of this home? What are you growing?
  

• Question anything you think you need to do out of worry, shame, or anger.

• The Divine is always watching.

• The Divine is always available for you. Are you open to the Divine?

• Let it help.

• Ask it to take what you cannot bear.

• Receive t what it has to offer you!

• No becoming, No doing to get, not trying to improve or fix yourself or your life.
  
  Just being YOU.
  Your Heart's Way. Not your ego-mind's.
  
  Are you scared or resisting it?

  What becomes possible if you surrender to this Being without the rules that keep you feeling scared?
  
  What is the more profound truth?
  

  What will happen?

  What will happen when you allow for more space to discover the truth?

  Find out!

  Nothing compares to this.

  Trust me.

Being without “fear” is a part of your experience.

Noticing the beauty of what IS inside of your body.

Allowing the play of events, feelings, and thought forms, to come and go.

• Living inside the Being.
  Doing through the Living.

  
  Only doing what feels natural.

  
  Beyond rules. Beyond "normal."
  Focusing on what feels natural.

  Not normal, but natural.
  
  To me, what feels natural right now is to surrender even more to what I do not know.
  
  To enjoy being with me.
  To talk to you about love.

  
  About taking time to spend Loving Yourself.
  Learning about yourself.
  And Being with Yourself.
  
  About the joy of being YOU.
  Of what it means to be in love with yourself.
  
  Of feeling, giving, and receiving Your love because it feels good, not because you want to get something back.
  
  No becoming, No doing to get. No trying to improve, or fix.
  
  Just being. Being Your Way.
  
  Are you scared, or resisting this?

  What becomes possible if you surrender to Being with the truth?
  
  I dare you to question your life story and the rules around what an effective, efficient, productive, high-achieving, successful, worthy, goal-oriented, growth mindset-focused, "accomplished" human being is.
  
  I dare you to doubt what belief about who you're supposed to be, and HOW you are supposed to "get there" or "stay there," is not true for you right now.
  
  There is always another way.
  And it can only come from asking the right question and being willing to hear the answer.
  
  A way that is challenging, that will test your faith, your ideas about yourself, and what the world around you has to offer, and it will hurt your ego.
  
  And it will free you. It will wake you up.
  You will discover that YOU are the destination of all your desires.
  And you will get to marry being in the world and witnessing the play of your desire from a place of nonattachment to the outcome.
  because YOU are the Prize.
  You are the key.
  
  So, how much time how much energy, and how much LOVE are you pouring into that one?
  Into getting to know yourself beyond the rules that keep you focused on some destination "over there?" Never quite there? Never quite satisfied, and never fulfilled and free to be who you are?
  
  Looking for permission to take a break. feeling lazy when you yearn to have a deep conversation with God, The Divine, Your intuitive Self, whatever you want to call THAT great power you can feel living in your heart?
  
  What if there was another way?
  What if what you believed to be true, wasn't YOUR truth?
  What if it was the truth about who you were a month ago, but not today?
  
  
  As I find myself, practicing my personal "surrender experience," and recovering from a good 7 years of intense activity, learning, building, breaking down, rebuilding, and re-inventing what it means to be a human being with a deep desire to serve and to thrive while being in integrity with the truth of my heart.

  So, what if there is another way to be and experience life as a sovereign, fully awake being?

• “Mourning comes. Grief comes. Sadness comes. Then once fully felt and experienced, they make room for your natural state: then comes Joy and peace of recognizing that you are always there- that Being- is available to you and is your true place, from where all of the play is witnessed.

  So who are you at this moment?

  And all of the thoughts, emotions, and beliefs come and go.

  One thing doesn't change. Your deep awareness of YOU. Your presence with what is true in your heart.

  Let the thoughts come and fly like loud birds, and know that as long as they have nothing to feed on: a.k.a. (they feed on your attention + energy to their presence as they come into your garden-and your identification with them as the truth of who you are.

  Is that “person” true?

  You do not need to protect what is true.

  So the ego will fight for what isn’t to keep “alive in your mind”

  Expose it, and it will reveal itself as a temporary idea.

  You do not need to kill what is not true.

  You just have to stay present with the truth and bring your awareness to that which you KNOW is the truth of the pure divine gnosis inside of your body: One that sees and witnesses all but attaches itself to nothing. One that LOVES you and your different parts unconditionally.

• Stay with THAT one.”So what rules are you grasping onto, because you are hooked on the distraction from your essence?
  
  What are you afraid to hear in the silence of your inner being?
  
  Are you ready to be free?
  
  As I write this, I am in deep reverence for how little I know. And how I actually don't want to figure anything out.
  I yearn to celebrate this moment of awareness with you. That I get to be free now.
  That I get o share how deeply I love what is real in my life now.
  This moment, You. My soul mates: my friends, clients, family, and teachers.
  This body.
  
  Witnessing how little actually depends on my striving, trying to do, to get, to achieve, or to become.
  
  Noticing the joy, the peace, and the deeper surrender to the great power that knows exactly what you need, and is here to guide you without your "trying."
  
  It will take your devotion to your freedom.
  
  You have to want it THAT much, that you give up trying to become anything else but what you are.
  
  

Your Sasha

P.S. Here is my most recent live-on BREAKING YOUR OLD RULES!